“This work is never meant to be carried alone.
We listen together, discern together,
and trust that God speaks in the shared space
between us.”
Our Team
Rev. Clare Loughrige, MMN
Principal and Curriculum Architect
Clare is a church planter, co-lead pastor since 1991 and social activist. She is a formally trained Spiritual Director(christoscenter.org)author of three Enneagram Books. An International Enneagram Association (IEA) Professional, she has created an IEA Accredited Training Program that certifies Enneagram students utilizing the Harmony Triads model for transformation. In addition to Clare’s work with Spiritual Communities, she currently serves as Co-Chair of Michigan Human Trafficking Task Force, and Advisory Board to Sexual Assault Services Calhoun County Advisory Board.
Rev. Scott Loughrige
Crossroads Soul Resources CFO
Scott is a church planter and social entrepreneur and a trained Spiritual Director through Crossroads Soul Resources School of Spiritual Direction. Scott has provided vision and executive oversight for Crossroads Church and Ministries (CCM), Bread of Life Food Pantry, and CCM World Missions. He has spent his adult life leading teams, ministries, and educational agencies to bring the good news of Jesus to seekers, the poor and marginalized. An IEA Professional, Scott is certified in the Enneagram through Jerome Wagner, Ph.D., certified in ©iEnneagram Motions of the Soul (Clare Loughrige), and co-author of “Spiritual Rhythms for the Enneagram.” Scott serves as a Financial Strategist for CCM and the Michigan Human Trafficking Task Force. Scott is also a graduate of the first cohort of Crossroads Soul Resources School of Spiritual Direction.
Lori Tate, DMin
Executive Colleague
Lori is a spiritual director and an IEA Accredited Professional Member and certified by Enneagram Spectrum (Jerry Wagner) and ©iEnneagram Motions of the Soul (Clare Loughrige). Lori integrates the Enneagram into her spiritual direction practice, Soul Dig,which extends beyond the United States. She also teaches the Enneagram in small groups and workshops. She has a Masters of Art in Christian Education from Asbury Theological Seminary, a Doctorate of Ministry in Spiritual Direction & Formation through the Graduate Theological Foundation via Dominican Center of Marywood, Grand Rapids, Michigan. Over the last 20 years she has served in various kids’ ministries at Ginghamsburg United Methodist Church in Tipp City, Ohio; Westwinds Church in Jackson, Michigan and The Gathering Place –a faith-based early childhood education center – in Toledo, Ohio.
Adele Calhoun, MA
Adele has worked as a pastor, missionary, InterVarsity staff member, wife, mother, artist, spiritual director, college professor, author, icon writer, healing prayer minister, pilgrimage leader, and pastor. She is a graduate of the University of Colorado and Gordon-Conwell Theological Seminary, and is adjunct faculty for Selah (a Spiritual Direction Training program). She has authored numerous books (The Spiritual Disciplines Handbook, True You, Women & Identity, and others) and co-authored Spiritual Rhythms for the Enneagram: A Handbook for Harmony and Transformation. Adele’s passion is for people to move beyond religion to a connection with Jesus that unites both their head and their heart in service and love of others.
Adele is a certified Enneagram trainer and serves as adjunct faculty for The Transforming Center (IL) and the Soul Care Institute (CO). She is also certified in ©iEnneagram Motions of the Soul (Clare Loughrige).
Doug Calhoun, Dmin
Doug brings over forty years of ministry experience working with people and seeking their transformation. This internal focus combines with his missional desire that God’s glory fill the whole earth. Doug’s ministry began working with university students with InterVarsity Christian Fellowship and then moved into the church arena, serving in a wide range of roles. During that time he ministered cross-culturally on six continents resourcing national churches and missionaries in spiritual formation.
He is a trained spiritual director and a certified Enneagram trainer/test administrator for the Wagner Enneagram Personality Profiles Spectrum. Doug is a graduate of Miami University (B.S) and Gordon-Conwell Theological Seminary (M.Div. and D.Min. in Christian Spirituality) and co-author of Spiritual Rhythms for the Enneagram: A Handbook for Harmony and Transformation. He is also certified in ©iEnneagram Motions of the Soul (Clare Loughrige).
Dr. Jerome Wagner, Ph.D
Dr. Wagner is a clinical psychologist, psychotherapist, supervisor, consultant in private practice, and emeritus faculty member in the Department of Psychology and Institute of Pastoral Studies at Loyola University, Chicago.
Among the earliest students of the Enneagram in the United States, Dr. Wagner’s dissertation was one of the first written descriptions of the Enneagram and pioneered formal research studies on the Enneagram. Part of his study involved constructing an Enneagram inventory. The current version and Manual of his highly researched and statistically validated Wagner Enneagram Personality Style Scales (WEPPS) can be taken online at www.WEPSS.com and is available in hard copy from Western Psychological Services (www.wpspublish.com; 800-648-8857). The WEPSS is the only Enneagram inventory reviewed in Buros’s Mental Measurements Yearbook (15th edition), a recognized assessment evaluator
Mary Albert Darling, MA
Mary is a professor of communications at Spring Arbor University, Spring Arbor, Michigan. In addition to teaching in the Department of Communication and Media, for which she received SAU’s Teaching Excellence Award, Darling designed and taught classes on spiritual directing, mentoring & leadership, as well as spiritual formation and justice, in SAU former master’s program in spiritual formation and leadership. She is a formally trained spiritual director and the published author of books on the issues of justice and intimacy with God. She regularly does spiritual direction, primarily with college students. Mary earned her MA in Communication Arts and Sciences from Western Michigan University. She is also an IEA Accredited Professional Member and certified by Enneagram Spectrum (Jerry Wagner) and ©iEnneagram Motions of the Soul (Clare Loughrige).
Charlotte Dillon
PhD, MPS, SEP, DARe trained
Dr. Dillon is a clinical psychologist and the owner of Gateway Psychological Services, Ltd. She is trained in the integration of the spiritual with the psychological and believes that we are created fromlove, for relationship, and as such, we live our best lives when we are connected and nourished in healthy relational systems. Persons who have experienced developmental and/or relational trauma, spiritual desolation and/or overwhelming life stress are ideal candidates for work with Dr. Dillon. She grew up in a pastor’s family, and has a special tenderness for pastors and church leaders, who need a safe and confidential place to be fully human. Dr. Dillon has extensive experience consulting, teaching, and doing psychotherapy with pastors and church leaders.
Kelly Kastens
Chicago Area Ministry Director
Kelly has spent over 20 years as a pastor in worship, spiritual formation, and retreat ministry. She is passionate about creating spaces where spiritual pilgrims can encounter God—through teaching, prayer, retreat leadership, and spiritual direction. A trusted mentor to young pastors, leaders, and seminarians, Kelly is known for her deep listening, attentiveness to the Holy Spirit’s movement, and thoughtful questions for discernment. She holds a Master’s in Christian Ministry from Emmanuel Christian Seminary and is certified in ©iEnneagram Motions of the Soul and trained as a Spiritual Director through Crossroads Soul Resources.
Rev. Dr. Phaedra Blocker
Phaedra is a preacher, teacher, consultant, spiritual director, retreat leader, and singer. Founder and Principal of The Blocker Group, LLC, she is dedicated to empowering individuals and organizations (particularly clergy and congregations) to move toward wholeness and actualize their potential as agents of change and shalom in the world. She is also the Founder and President of the Center for Clergy & Congregational Wellness, a nonprofit organization that empowers ministry leaders to facilitate health and wholeness in themselves, their ministry contexts, and their adjacent communities. In addition, she serves as an Affiliate Professor in Leadership & Formation at Palmer Theological Seminary of Eastern University, where she teaches in the Seminary’s Masters and Doctoral programs, as well as in the University’s Marriage and Family Therapy Doctoral program. Learn more about Phaedra here.
Phaedra is also certified in ©iEnneagram Motions of the Soul (Clare Loughrige).
Suzanne Dion
Enneagram Teacher and Coach, Speaker, and Author, Suzanne Dion is a deeply committed enthusiast of the Enneagram system for personal and professional self-awareness. Suzanne completed the teacher certification process with the Palmer-Daniels Enneagram Professional Training School, now called The Narrative Enneagram (TNE), in 2008. One of her driving goals continues to be to increase the self-awareness and developmental well-being of women, particularly mothers, as the mental health of society, Suzanne believes, is gravely dependent on the mental health, sense of security, and emotional stability of women.
Suzanne is also an advocate of bringing self-awareness Enneagram-focused training — as an original Founding Board Member and Teacher of the Enneagram Prison Project — to the marginalized and those currently and formerly incarcerated, having worked intensely with both male and female inmates, minimum to maximum security, at institutions such as San Quentin Federal Prison, San Mateo County Jail, and Santa Clara County’s Main Jail and Elmwood Correctional Facility.
Jill Theodorovich
Crossroads Soul Resources CFO
Jill is a founding partner of Crossroads Church and Ministries (since 1991). She serves as a pastor on staff, is trained in spiritual direction and spiritual formation through The Christos Center, and is certified in ©iEnneagram Motions of the Soul.
Stacey Livingstone
Stacey is a trained Spiritual Director through Crossroads Soul Resources School of Spiritual Direction and serves on staff at Crossroads Church and Ministries as the Arts Formation Pastor. She is also certified in ©iEnneagram Motions of the Soul.
Patricia M. Robertson, DMin
Pat is an author, speaker and spiritual director, who is committed to helping individuals find God in their everyday experience. She has a Doctor of Ministry from Ecumenical Theological Seminary, Detroit, MI, with an emphasis in spiritual direction, and over thirty-five years of ministry experience. Pat is certified by ©iEnneagram Motions of the Soul (Clare Loughrige). She is a published author of numerous non-fiction and fiction books, including the Dancing through Life series, novels about people of faith who are knocked off balance by life yet manage to get back up and continue. Find out more about Pat here.
AJ MATTSON
Admin Team
AJ (Andrew) serves at Crossroads Church and Ministries. He currently works as Manager of Housing and Operations at Albion College. AJ is also certified in ©iEnneagram Motions of the Soul.