Goals for Flourishing in 2025: Discernment or Hindrance?

Carl Jung reminds us, “What is a normal goal to a young person becomes a neurotic hindrance in old age.” This truth invites us to reflect: are our goals life-giving or do they keep us stuck in outdated patterns?

Paul’s wisdom in 1 Corinthians 13:11 (paraphrased by Clare Loughrige) encourages growth:
“When I was younger, I thought, felt, and acted in ways as we all do before we know better. But I’m growing again, leaving younger ways behind.”

As you step into 2025:

  • What goals truly nurture your soul?
  • What intentions will foster growth?
  • What will you release to embrace greater freedom?

Every season invites us to flourish. But flourishing requires courage to receive and wisdom to let go.

Release What No Longer Serves You

Some goals, even noble ones, can become shackles when driven by fear, comparison, or perfectionism. Perhaps it’s time to let go of:

  • A job you’re holding onto for security.
  • An image you’re striving to maintain.
  • The weight of unspoken expectations.

As Jung’s insight on “neurotic hindrances” suggests, goals causing looping thoughts, chest tightness, or a knot in your gut may not align with your true self. These physical signals often speak to what needs release.


Clare & Scott Loughrige’s Offerings for 2025

Whether you’re discerning new goals or releasing old patterns, these offerings provide sacred space for growth and connection:

1. NEW! Monthly Group Spiritual Direction Cohorts

Explore the Enneagram Trinitarian Harmony Model paired with Group Spiritual Direction (GSD).

  • What’s Included:

    • Five monthly teachings on the Enneagram Trinitarian Harmony Model.
    • Reflection questions and spiritual practices to deepen your connection with the Trinity.
    • Guided Group Spiritual Direction with seasoned spiritual director and  IEA-professionals
    • Cohort Details:
    • Dates: January–May 2025.
    • Times: Choose one: Wednesday evenings, Friday mornings, or Friday afternoons.
    • Cost: $385.

GSD fosters empathy, deep listening, and discernment. Participants share their stories, while the group offers prayerful reflection, phrases, or images to encourage growth and clarity.
Click here for more info or to sign up


2. Leading with Soul ONLINE Retreat

A 3-hour online retreat to set your intentions for 2025.


3. Enneagram Training and Certification

Deepen your understanding of the Enneagram Trinitarian Harmony Model with professional training opportunities. January 7-10 Online or Chicago land

Learn more and sign up today!


Let 2025 Be Your Year of Flourishing.
Join Clare and Scott Loughrige for transformative offerings that align your life with the flourishing you were made for.